We as a tech savvy nation have embraced social interaction on various platforms in a big way. Of course we all have varying exposure to social media. Those of us in business can often live or die by social media these days. One thing we have to remember is that different groups see social media differently. To this end I would like to take a moment and speak with you about the impact that social media can have on our young people’s life and how we as parents, aunts, uncles, or teachers can use these moments to teach them more about life.
The age in which our young people are beginning to immerse themselves in digital media, social media and cell phones is becoming younger and younger. This means not only are teenagers but preteens and even some younger children are exposed to hours and hours of social media a week. As you know the things that are out there for these young people to see and do are unlimited really. The key is to start early and be consistent with teaching moments.
One of the biggest trend that seems not to be going away anytime soon is selfies, or self-taken and posted photos that you do on the fly. These photos give a snapshot of the frame of mind and mood of an individual. One of the newest trends in selfies are “selfies in serious places” these are photos taken at places like hospitals or funerals. This may seem very odd to you but to them it is taking an emotionally hard moment and changing it into a joke or lessening the impact in some way.
One thing we have to understand is that as humans our reasoning and logic are not fully developed until after about the time we reach the age of 25, so at the ages 12-25 we have varying degrees in which we can realize that our actions have impact. Our emotions far outweigh our reason at this point.
Added to this is the fact that young people see these social interactions online differently than we might. Texting, video, posts, tweets and instant info are part of their life. They take it for granted. They have in some cases literally cut their teeth online and in cyberspace. Although some are coming to realize differently, these forums that these young people engage on feel very intimate to them. Even with the best filters and privacy settings out there info still gets passed around.
Remember when speaking with your young person about these topics – they will be defensive. Remind them that you care and that you want to see them safe and happy. Give them an outlet for discussion no matter what they have to say because to them it is a very important and vital part of their existence. If you act instantly on the offence it is certain to shut them down fast. Setting rules and expectations early also is a good idea.
Take a look at what is going on in your young person’s actual and cyber life. Be there for them and encourage them to be responsible. Things do and will come up that you may feel you have no way to remedy but keep yourself educated on the latest trends as well and everyone will learn along the way.